Most guys are under the misconception that they are winners. They think that just because they have sex with women from time to time that they have it going on. They think that they’re successful with the ladies because once in the blue moon, they get their dick sucked and they fuck a chick that they really like.
Well, we’re more than welcome to believe in our self delusions. Unfortunately, self delusion and a sense of denial is not going to take you far in life. You probably already know this first hand. You probably don’t need me to remind you of the personal pain, disappointment and discouragement as well as frustration that you’re probably feeling deep down inside.
If you have decided to become really serious and honest with yourself, you have to understand that if you want to truly bang a cougar, you have to bang a cougar like a winner. This is how it works. There is really no other option. Otherwise, you’re going to back to your current sexual pattern, which is basically living the sex life of an elephant.